I'm Here Too gently blocks your social media apps until you share a real moment of connection with your partner. A kiss, a hug, a look in the eyes.
Life gets busy. Between work, kids, and chores, couples drift apart — not on purpose, but because the daily routine replaces intentional affection with distracted coexistence.
The average person spends 2+ hours daily on social media. That's time taken from the person sitting right next to you.
Without daily affection, partners lose empathy for each other. Workloads feel unfair. Small frustrations become big resentments.
Research shows affection is the strongest predictor of relationship health. Not grand gestures — just daily, consistent warmth.
I'm Here Too creates a simple daily ritual that puts your partner before your feed.
Choose the hours when you're both home — mornings, evenings, weekends. You decide when connection matters most.
Select which social apps get paused during together time. Instagram, TikTok, X — whatever pulls your attention away.
The app suggests a small affection — a hug, a kiss, eye contact. Complete it together and take a quick selfie.
Once you've connected, your apps unlock. Track your mood, build your streak, and watch your relationship grow.
Every feature is built to strengthen your bond — not add another thing to your to-do list.
Set flexible time windows that match your real life. Different schedules for weekdays and weekends. Adapts to your routine.
Uses your device's built-in screen time features to pause distracting apps. Not a hard lockout — a mindful nudge.
Semi-random suggestions that keep things fresh: a 10-second hug, a forehead kiss, three things you love about them.
Capture a quick selfie after each connection. Over weeks and months, build a beautiful visual diary of your love.
Quick daily check-ins track your mood and affection patterns. See how connection impacts how you both feel over time.
Build your affection streak together. Unlock milestones, earn badges, and celebrate your growing commitment to each other.
I'm Here Too is built on decades of relationship science from leading researchers.
Dr. John Gottman's research shows that stable couples maintain a ratio of at least 5 positive interactions for every negative one.
Physical touch releases oxytocin, which increases trust, reduces anxiety, and makes future affection feel even more rewarding. A virtuous cycle.
Campbell & Ponzetti found that couples with deliberate daily rituals report significantly higher commitment and relationship satisfaction.
Here's what our beta testers are saying about their experience with I'm Here Too.
We were both guilty of reaching for our phones first thing in the morning. Now we reach for each other. It's such a small change but it shifted everything.
I didn't realize how much I was scrolling during our time together until the app made me stop. The 10-second hug prompt is now our favorite part of the evening.
Looking back at our selfie timeline from the past three months literally made us both cry. You can see us going from awkward forced smiles to genuinely happy faces.
We built I'm Here Too with privacy at the core. Your intimate moments are not our business.
Selfies and mood data are stored on your phone by default. Cloud backup is optional and encrypted.
We never sell your data. Period. Our business model is subscriptions, not advertising.
We don't track your browsing, location, or app usage beyond what's needed to pause selected apps.
Export or permanently delete all your data at any time. One tap, completely gone.
Everything you need to know about I'm Here Too.
Yes! The core experience — app pausing, daily affection prompts, and selfie capture — is completely free. Premium features like advanced mood analytics, extended selfie timeline, and custom affection prompts are available with a subscription.
Yes, both partners install the app and connect their accounts. This way, both phones are paused during together time, and both partners participate in the daily affection ritual. One subscription covers both of you.
Absolutely. I'm Here Too only pauses the social media apps you choose. Calls, messages, maps, banking, and all essential apps remain fully accessible at all times.
I'm Here Too adapts to your life. If one partner is traveling or schedules change, you can easily pause the blocking for that day or adjust your together-time windows on the fly.
The selfie is optional but encouraged. Many couples find that looking back at their selfie timeline is the most meaningful part of the experience. You can unlock your apps without taking one.
All selfies and mood data are stored on your device by default. We don't sell data, don't serve ads, and don't track your activity beyond what's needed to pause your selected apps. You can export or delete everything at any time.
We're building something special for couples who want to reconnect. I'm Here Too is launching soon.
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